Five Myths About Modern Prostitution
September 13, 2010
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Last week, Craigslist, the popular provider of Internet classified advertising, halted publication of its “adult services” section. The move followed criticism from law enforcement officials across the country who have accused the site of facilitating prostitution on a massive scale. Of course, selling sex is an old business — most say the oldest. But as the Craigslist controversy proves, it’s also one of the fastest changing. And as a result, most people’s perceptions of the sex trade are wildly out of date.
1. Prostitution is an alleyway business. It once was, of course. Men who wanted to find prostitutes combed alleys behind bars, dimly lit parks and industrial corridors.
But in the United States today, only a few big cities, such as Los Angeles and Miami, still have a thriving outdoor street market for sex.
Red-light districts waned in part because the Internet became the preferred place to pick up a prostitute. Even the most down-and-out sex worker now advertises on Craigslist (or did until recently), as well as on dating sites and in online chat forums.
As a result, a pimp’s role in the sex economy has been diminished. In addition, the online trade has helped bring the sex business indoors, with johns and prostitutes increasingly meeting up in bars, in hotels, in their own homes or in apartments rented by groups of sex workers.
All this doesn’t mean a john can’t get what he’s looking for in the park, but he had better be prepared to search awhile.
Although putting numbers on these trends is difficult, the transition from the streets to the Internet seems to have been very rapid.
In my own research on sex workers in New York, women who in 1999 worked mostly outdoors said that by 2004, demand on the streets had decreased by half.
2. Men visit sex workers for sex. Often, they pay them to talk. I’ve been studying high-end sex workers (by which I mean those who earn more than $250 per “session”) in New York, Chicago and Paris for more than a decade, and one of my most startling findings is that many men pay women to not have sex.
Well, they pay for sex, but end up chatting or having dinner and never get around to physical contact.
Approximately 40 percent of high-end sex worker transactions end up being sex-free. Even at the lower end of the market, about 20 percent of transactions don’t ultimately involve sex.
Figuring out why men pay for sex they don’t have could sustain New York’s therapists for a long time.
But the observations of one Big Apple-based sex worker are typical: “Men like it when you listen. … I learned this a long time ago. They pay you to listen — and to tell them how great they are.”
Indeed, the high-end sex workers I have studied routinely see themselves as acting the part of a counselor or a marriage therapist.
They say their job is to feed a man’s need for judgment-free friendship. Little wonder, then, that so many describe themselves to me as belonging to the “wellness” industry.
3. Most prostitutes are addicted to drugs or were abused as children.
This was once the case, as a host of research on prostitution long ago confirmed. But the population of women choosing sex work has changed dramatically over the past decade.
High-end prostitutes of the sort Eliot Spitzer, a former governor of New York, frequented account for a greater share of the sex business than they once did.
And as Barnard College’s Elizabeth Bernstein has shown, sex workers today tend to make a conscious decision to enter the trade — not as a reaction to suffering but to earn some quick cash.
Among these women, Bernstein’s research suggests, prostitution is viewed as a part-time job, one that grants autonomy and flexibility.
4. Prostitutes and police are enemies. When it comes to the sex trade, police officers have in recent decades functioned as quasi-social workers.
In my own work, I’ve found that cops are among the most empathetic and helpful people that sex workers meet on the job.
They typically hand out phone numbers for shelters, soup kitchens and emergency rooms, and they tend to demonstrate a great deal of sympathy for women who have been abused.
Instead of arresting an abused sex worker, police officers will usually let her off with a warning and turn their attention to finding her abusive client.
Unfortunately, officers say it is becoming more difficult to help such women; as they move indoors, it is simply more difficult to locate them.
5. Closing Craigslist’s “adult services” section will significantly affect the sex trade. Although Craigslist offered customers an important means to connect with sellers of sexual services, its significance has been exaggerated .
Even before the “adult services” section was closed, it was falling out of favor among users.
Pranksters were placing ads as hoaxes. And because sex workers knew that cops were responding to ads, they were increasingly hesitant to answer solicitations.
I found that 80 percent of men who contacted women via Craigslist in New York never actually ended up meeting them.
How the sex trade will evolve from here is anyone’s guess, but the Internet is vast, and already an increasing number of sex workers use Twitter and Facebook to advertise their services.
Apparently, the desire to reveal is sometimes greater than the desire to conceal.
Sudhir Venkatesh is a professor of sociology at Columbia University and the author of “Gang Leader for a Day: A Rogue Sociologist Takes to the Streets.”
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