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The Japanese word kawaigari means “doting,” but in the grueling world of sumo, it is an ironic euphemism for pushing a wrestler to the very limits of his physical and mental endurance.

It can include beatings with bamboo sticks and choking with sand or salt.

In one infamous case, a teenage recruit died in mysterious circumstances after he tried to flee the privations of his sumo stable.

Harumafuji, who last month won Japan’s major tournament, recalled the pain and tears that toughened him up in the nine years since he arrived from his native Mongolia with no money and not a word of Japanese.

“It’s a man’s world,” said the 25-year-old champion, whose real name is Davaanyam Byambadorj, taking a rest with a sweatband around his head after a recent

five-hour morning training session in his Tokyo stable.

“I had to get used to the bullying, beatings, hunger and then the language and the culture, which I did not understand,” he said, recalling how he was singled out for extra torment because he is a foreigner.

“It was rough.

“It’s a world where you either become strong or not. In that sense, as much as it was painful, I felt very strongly that I would do my best to become strong as quickly as possible.”

In sumo, kawaigari means “crying, then being forced to stand, then being beaten again. It’s not simple to express with words because it’s a physical experience,” he said.

But it’s not just the beatings that steel the wrestlers in the quasi-monastic life of the sumo stable, where the fighters forfeit much of their personal liberty and embark on a grueling daily routine.

“The entire day is a battle in the world of sumo,” Harumafuji said.

The younger wrestlers start the day at 3 a.m. cleaning the stable, washing their seniors’ loincloths and preparing meals.

They are banned from watching television and using cellphones and receive only modest pocket money.

Harumafuji said he found it toughest to get used to a diet heavy on fish — which has sent some of his mutton-eating compatriots running to the Mongolian Embassy to escape Japan — served in enormous quantities of 10,000 calories a day. “Everyone says going on a diet is hard, but I think gaining weight is so many times more difficult,” he said. “Eating was the scariest and my most painful experience.

“I’m thin by nature, so I really had a hard time to eat in the beginning. I ate and I vomited. Ate and vomited. Your stomach expands when you do that so I was forced to eat until I vomited,” Harumafuji said.

“When I vomited, there would be someone already waiting with food and I was forced to eat again.”

The force-feeding helped boost the 1.85-meter athlete’s weight to 126 kilograms, from 86 — still about 30 kilograms lighter than the average top division wrestler.

Harumafuji said he has no regrets.

“The sumo ring is very honest. He who really does his best will rise. Man’s efforts don’t lie.

“I’m glad I did sumo, I am very grateful. I have learnt many things inside the ring, about life, the path I’ve chosen, about cherishing people.

“Any punk who swaggers into a stable will change in one day. He will be cleaning the next day — cleaning toilets, crying. He’d be forced to lick the toilet bowl, because he’d be bullied,” Harumafuji said, smirking.

“There are many obstacles, but if you’re able to get over them, you can become stronger than the others. If you rise up, everyone will follow you, thinking, ‘This guy’s tough’.” AFP